There she is – the girl who lights up a room. All eyes are on her. How is she so at ease, full of delight, and practically mesmerizing in her love for life and people. Life’s goodies flow easily to her. Have you seen her?
Pop open Facebook or check the ads streaming down the site of a google search and there she is. Apparently she’s got what you want.
I run across these women in real life, too. They truly exist. Some women are born comfortable in their skin and at ease in the world. Their openness and ease makes them magnets for attracting what they want in life.
I can understand your envy. I was born shy, more fearful than I showed and an introvert. Call me a highly-sensitive person. I was quiet and all eyes weren’t on me when I entered a room (what a relief).
I would see these women and think how can I be like that??? Can I ooze with confidence and grace?
Truthfully, you don’t have to fix yourself, be better or different to have life’s goodies flow to you. You only have to let go of what is not you.
Do you find yourself wondering IF you were only ….(smarter, richer, younger, thinner, healthier, etc.) THEN you would easily have WHAT YOU WANT?
Both of these mindsets deplete your power and ignore your God-given ability to create your life.
You DO NOT have to be different.
You are not lacking in ANY way.
Believing that you must BE MORE will keep you struggling and suffering and will energetically block what you desire. You don’t want that anymore. Right?
You don’t have to change your personality, hit lotto or try harder.
Trying harder depletes and exhausts your energy. If you are trying, then you aren’t going to get anywhere because this is a circular energy that makes you believe you are moving forward. But, the energy is stagnant and rotates in its own containment. It keeps you stuck or, even worse, causes regression. It holds you back from attaining the one thing you want as the energy holds the consciousness of desperation and lack.
If you believe you have to BE different, then you are blocking what you could attract into your life. What we believe shapes what happens for us.
I used to do both and the results were a dismal romantic life and money struggles mixed in with exhaustion. It uses a lot of energy to try to MORE or be different. This tied-up energy should be used to positively create what you want. So, free it up now.
Letting Go of What is Not You.
This is where you get to be a detective.
Notice how you feel when you end a conversation. Were you true to yourself?
Notice how you act around authority. It could be bosses, teachers, or law enforcement. Did you pull out a different persona?
Notice when you are speaking to someone and your gut feels twisted or your throat feels blocked. Were you suppressing a different viewpoint?
Notice what you say and how you act around anyone that you perceive as better or worse off than yourself. What expressions do you hear yourself using? Do you diminish yourself or try to build yourself up? Are you comfortable with having more or less?
Savor each clue you uncover. These are opportunities to let go of what is not you.
Take baby steps, if necessary. One small, honest comment can be groundbreaking work for those who are in the habit of shutting themselves down for others.
Attract from Authenticity.
As you make new choices to let a truer version of yourself show up, you easily attract what you want in your life. Patterns will unravel. Relationships will reconfigure and drop into deeper honesty. New people will enter your life along with new opportunities.
Beliefs about needing to be more or different only deny the amazingness of who you are already. You already have everything you need. You are rich with unseen gifts. Drop what is not you, so you can shine through!
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